Your Journey as a Member
From sign-up to a meaningful connection — here is every step of the process, clearly explained.
Step by Step
The Full Member Process
Church verification is optional but recommended for a higher quality experience.
Create Your Account
Sign up with your email and basic details in under 2 minutes. Choose your church from the registered list — your account will be linked to your congregation from the start.
Build Your Profile
Fill in your personal details, faith background, education, career, family values, and what you're looking for in a partner. Upload a profile photo to help others get to know you.
Optional Church Verification
Church verification is optional, not mandatory. If your church is registered on the platform, you can request that your church moderator reviews and approves your profile. Verified profiles receive a trust badge visible to other members — increasing confidence and match quality. You can still browse and connect without being verified.
Browse Profiles
You can browse profiles as soon as your account is active. Filter by denomination, age, location, education, and more to find meaningful compatibility. Verified profiles are highlighted with a trust badge to help you find quality matches.
Express Interest
Send an interest request to profiles that resonate with you. The other person can accept, decline, or let it expire. Everything is respectful, intentional, and in your control.
Connect & Communicate
When both parties accept each other's interest, a private messaging channel opens. Take your time getting to know each other before making any commitments.
Our Principles
What We Stand For
Community-Led Verification
No anonymous sign-ups. Every profile is vouched for by a real person from your own church community.
Privacy by Design
Your contact details are never shared directly. All communication stays within the platform until you choose otherwise.
Respect & Intentionality
Every interaction is designed to be respectful, intentional, and free of pressure.
FAQ
Member Questions
Who can join the platform?
Anyone can create an account — you do not need to be from a registered church to join. Church verification is an optional step that gives your profile a trust badge, but you can browse and connect with other members without it.
What if my church isn't registered yet?
You can still create an account and start browsing right away. Church verification is optional — if you want the trust badge, you can ask your church leadership to register. It's free and takes minutes.
Is my personal information safe?
Your profile is only visible to other members on the platform. You can also control your privacy settings to manage what information is shown on your profile.
Is church verification mandatory?
No. Church verification is completely optional. You can register, browse profiles, send interests, and connect with other members without ever getting verified. Verification simply adds a trust badge to your profile.
How long does profile verification take?
If you opt in for church verification, the time depends on your church moderator's availability. Most approvals happen within 24–72 hours. You'll receive an email notification as soon as your profile is reviewed.
Can I withdraw an interest or unmatch?
Yes. You can withdraw a sent interest before it's accepted, decline an incoming interest, or unmatch from an existing accepted connection at any time — with no questions asked.
Can I re-connect after unmatching?
Yes. If you unmatch someone, either party can send a new interest request in the future. Connections are never permanently closed.
Ready to Find Your Match?
Join a growing community of verified members looking for meaningful, faith-filled connections.